An Asian adventure with PH

Published September 2026

“My husband Terry and I have just returned from what can only be described as the trip of a lifetime. A joyful, eye-opening, and deeply meaningful adventure across Asia, exploring both the Philippines and Japan. It was a journey filled with colour, culture, connection, and moments that will stay with us forever. For us, this wasn’t just a holiday. It was something much more special, our long-overdue honeymoon, taken nine years into marriage, and made even more significant by the planning, care, and determination it took to make it happen while living with pulmonary hypertension.

A meaningful return to the Philippines

Our adventure began in the Philippines, a country that holds a deeply personal place in my heart. From the moment we arrived in Manila, we were welcomed by a city bursting with life, contrast, and warmth. With the help of our wonderful guide, we experienced far more than the usual tourist highlights. She showed us the real Manila, its energy, its people, and its spirit.

What stood out most was the resilience and positivity of the Filipino people. Despite facing challenges, there was always kindness, laughter, and an incredible sense of community. It was both humbling and inspiring, and a reminder of how powerful a positive outlook can be.

We travelled like locals, hopping into colourful jeepneys and weaving through the streets in tuk-tuks, an experience that was equal parts chaotic and exhilarating. Exploring Intramuros, the historic walled city, gave us a glimpse into the country’s rich past, with its cobbled streets, Spanish-era architecture, and beautiful landmarks.

But the most emotional part of our time in Manila was something far more personal. It had been 35 years since I had last been there, the place where my life began. As a baby, I was left outside a hospital and later cared for at Concordia orphanage before being adopted by my parents, Val and Chris. Returning felt like coming full circle. We even stayed at the 5-star hotel my dad helped build as construction manager, the very project that first brought them to the Philippines. Little did they know they would return with a daughter in tow.

Visiting the orphanage again was incredibly moving. Seeing the love and care still given to children there today filled me with gratitude. What I felt wasn’t sadness or loss, it was connection, belonging, and healing. It reminded me that although my story began in uncertainty, it has always been shaped by love.

From the buzz of Manila, we flew to Boracay and what a contrast it was! Picture powdery white sand, crystal-clear waters, and a slower, gentler pace of life. It truly felt like stepping into paradise.

We spent our days soaking up the sunshine, enjoying delicious beachfront meals, and simply relaxing. One of the most magical moments was sailing on a traditional paraw (traditional Filipino sailboat) at sunset, the sky glowing as the sun dipped below the horizon.

Evenings were just as special, with fire shows lighting up the beach and a warm, vibrant atmosphere all around us. It was the perfect place to unwind and recharge before the next chapter of our journey.

Discovering Japan: A world of contrast

From the Philippines, we flew to Japan – a country that offered a completely different, yet equally incredible, experience.

Our first stop was Tokyo, where tradition and modern life exist side by side in the most fascinating way. Staying in Asakusa, we explored ancient temples like Senso-ji, while also diving into the electric energy of districts like Akihabara.

We were lucky enough to visit during cherry blossom season, and walking through Ueno Park surrounded by soft pink blooms felt almost dreamlike.

A day trip to Kamakura was a highlight, where we stood before the Great Buddha and wandered through peaceful bamboo forests. It was calm, beautiful, and so picturesque.

Next came Hakone, where everything slowed down. Nestled in the mountains, it’s known for its hot springs and natural beauty.

We stayed in a traditional ryokan, wearing yukata robes and enjoying a private onsen (hot spring bath). Outside, a typhoon brought heavy rain, but rather than spoiling the experience, it made it even more special. Listening to the rain while soaking in warm waters and enjoying a beautifully prepared kaiseki (traditional Japanese cuisine) meal was pure relaxation.

Although we couldn’t see Mount Fuji due to the weather, it only added a sense of determination to see it later in the trip.

Kyoto quickly became our favourite destination. It was everything we imagined Japan to be, which was traditional, peaceful, and full of charm.

We explored stunning temples, walked through historic streets, and visited Nara, where friendly deer roam freely. The famous red torii gates of Fushimi Inari and the golden beauty of Kinkaku-ji were unforgettable sights.

One of our favourite areas was Gion, where the atmosphere felt like stepping back in time. We even took part in a Geisha and Samurai experience, which was both fun and immersive. Kyoto captured our hearts completely.

Hiroshima was a very moving part of our journey. Visiting the Peace Memorial Park and Museum was an emotional experience, offering a powerful insight into the past and the importance of peace.

We also visited Miyajima Island, where the famous floating torii gate stands in the water. It was a peaceful contrast to the city’s history.

Osaka brought a burst of energy back into our trip. From the impressive Osaka Castle to the breathtaking views at the Umeda Sky Building, there was so much to take in.

Dotonbori was a highlight, with the bright and bold neon lights, and buzzing with life. The bright lights, incredible food, and a lively atmosphere made it unforgettable.

Returning to Tokyo, we stayed in Shibuya and experienced the famous crossing. Watching thousands of people walk across the road all at once was crazy, but incredible.

We also finally achieved our mission of seeing Mount Fuji. At Lake Kawaguchiko, on a clear morning, we saw it in all its glory. It was a moment we will never forget.

Before heading home, we spent time in Narita, walking through peaceful parks filled with cherry blossoms. It was the perfect, calm ending to an unforgettable adventure.

The reality of travelling with PH

While this trip was filled with amazing moments, it’s important to share the reality behind travelling with pulmonary hypertension.

This wasn’t a spontaneous holiday – it took over six months of careful planning. Every detail had to be considered with my health in mind.

From carrying extra medication and medical documentation, to arranging airline approvals for my portable oxygen concentrator, the preparation was extensive. Special assistance was booked at every airport to conserve energy, and transport apps were downloaded in advance to avoid unnecessary walking.

Accommodation had to be carefully chosen, ensuring lifts were available and locations were central.

Day-to-day I had to pace myself, balancing activity with rest, listening to my body, and adapting plans when needed. We always found a way around obstacles, whether it was tracking down elevators, adjusting routes on the trains or buses, or Terry literally giving me a piggy-back ride up stairs when needed. And when things were too far away, we called for a taxi. What also really helped was the Japanese public transport system. It is probably one of the best in the world, the trains and buses were always on time!

Having my portable oxygen concentrator made a huge difference throughout the trip. It gave me the energy to enjoy full days out and meant I could experience everything without feeling completely wiped out. It was genuinely a game-changer.

There were also health checks before travelling, including treatment for low iron and vitamin D levels, ensuring I was strong enough for the journey.

And of course, unexpected challenges still arose, including flight cancellations that required last-minute changes.

But was it worth it? Absolutely! Every bit of planning, every precaution, every challenge. It was all worth it.

This journey showed us that living with PH doesn’t mean giving up on dreams. It simply means approaching them differently with preparation, patience, and adaptability.

We experienced incredible places, connected with cultures, and created memories that will stay with us forever.

Most importantly, we proved to ourselves that with the right support and mindset, it is still possible to explore the world.

This trip wasn’t just about the destinations; it was about what it represented. Resilience. Love. Adventure. And the belief that life, even with its challenges, can still be full of extraordinary moments. Memories made that will be with us for the rest of our lives.

For anyone living with PH or supporting someone who is, I hope this story offers encouragement. Travel may look different, and it may take more planning, but it is still possible. And sometimes, those journeys become the most meaningful of all.”